Something to Do

I have been lucky enough to hook up with a couple of online support sites, created for caregivers like myself. We have a very unique world, with very specific needs for ourselves and our loved ones. A few of these ladies have become friends. What is wonderful on these sites is the help, advice, and resources that these people gladly share.

Last week, I went on one of the sites to ask about a possible “fidget mat” that I could buy for Doug. Alzheimer’s people sit and “fidget” with items.  They tear a tissue into tiny pieces, run their fingers over beads, repetitively.  This activity calms them. In Doug’s case, he was running a length of rope through his fingers. You can also buy these or have them customized. The cost to buy them is not cheap! From $50-$90 is the norm.

While I was researching this, I came across a lovely lady in east Texas, who has a group of ladies who meet once a week and make these. Then they Donate the finished mats to local hospitals, nursing homes, memory care facilities, etc. I fell in love with that idea! I can share her email address if anyone is interested. She was very helpful on how to start a group like hers. I am in the process of starting my own group and, for the first time, in a long time, feel like I have a purpose again!